How about them WIGs?
When you are new to a company, church or any organization you will quickly discover the 'secret' language spoken or new-to-you vocabulary that is being interjected into conversations.
Where do you want to eat?
Everyone in the group had good intentions. They wanted to be with friends, they wanted to go out to eat. The problem was it was just good 'intentions.' No, one wanted to make a decision and take a step toward the destination.